Dristi, are you serious? Is it possible to be kind in this cruel world?
We have witnessed a great deal of suffering, heartbreak, and sadness throughout the world. So many lives have been lost unnecessarily. There has been so much pain and loss. And you are asking to be kind?
It’s difficult to be kind to everyone I know. You must remember how you’re feeling while you’re being kind.
According to Angela C. Santomero, kindness is about “seeing with your heart.”
But why should we be kind to one another?
Kindness is the most precious thing in the world. The golden rule is well-known: treat people as you would like to be treated.
Have you ever found that doing something good for another person makes you feel better as well? It seems unusual, but it’s true if you are kind to others, you are more likely to feel better.
If you ask me what motivates me to be kind?
So I believe for some people, kindness is second nature and regardless of what people say about me and think about me, I have felt that I am a kind person.
And I think people like me don’t believe in being kind they simply do. Regrettably, this is not true for everyone.
Maybe, after reading some truth, you will make a greater effort to be kind to everyone you encounter.
1. Everyone is fighting their own Battel
Everyone is engaged in their own conflict. You never know what is going on in someone’s life.
Has it ever happened to you that you were having a bad day and a stranger did something to make it even worse? Because they don’t know you, they had no notion what was going on in your life. Maybe they were having a bad day and they took it out on you.
You never know Instead of being unkind or rude understand like you they are also having their battels. You can’t read minds, hence you have no idea what is going on in their lives. You can make their day a little better, rather than a little worse if you are kind.
2. People will remember how you made them feel for the rest of their lives.
“A person may not remember what you said to them, but they will always remember how you made them feel”
I’m sure there was a period in your life when someone treated you badly or you treated them badly and you didn’t like them after that likewise they don’t like you after that.
That has occurred to me numerous times. You probably have no recollection of what that individual said to you or what you said to them, but you do recall how they made you feel.
When someone helps you feel good about yourself, it operates in the same manner.
3. Being a jerk isn’t going to help you.
Consider one time when being cruel helped you solve a problem. You most likely ended up with more issues than you began with. Did you feel good about it once your problem was solved? I’m going to take a wild guess and say no.
When you approach someone in a rude manner, you will almost certainly be treated in the same manner. You will go a long way in life if you treat others with respect. Respectfully and kindly approach your difficult situations and problems. Both sides will be more at ease as a result of this. You’ll also arrive at a solution faster and in a more civilized manner, leaving with a positive feeling.
Life would be so much better if you spent even a fraction of that amount of time being kind to others.
There is already an excessive amount of hatred and resentment in the world.
There would be a lot more peace in the world if everyone chose to pause and consider before they choose to be rude to one another.
Rather than being cruel opt to spread joy and love. A good word can make the world a better place. We don’t need any more hostility in the world.
Kindness is always a choice.